DISCLAIMER: The blog written below is fictional. Any resemblance to anyone alive or dead is purely coincidental!!!
I always use to think that the people who write (Novels or blogs or any such thing) are in general the people who speak less or who actually express verbally a little lesser than they actually should... I guess i am here proving myself correct yet again... I know, I know, not everyone would agree with me at it, but then I have a right to have an opinion as everyone else does... Off late, I find myself falling into this category, speaking and expressing a lot lesser than what I used to before...
Yeah, there is a sense of change coming within me... I guess people who know me will agree that i have been one who hardly sits quiet and who hardly keeps the feelings/thoughts/opinions inside, no matter how bad or how good they are... But it all seem to change now... Not sure if it's just me getting into the wrong side of 20s or if there are incidents shaping me this way or if it's just a passing phase...
Life is sad and confusing this way, when you start using the two words "Not sure" quite often in your sentences... I know I am using them quite a few times here... That explains the way I am feeling while i write my first blog... Of course, I never planned to write my first blog in this mood, but then plans don't really go the way we want it... Isn't it!!? :) :)
The way I see it from here, I guess a few people I trusted into, have taken the liberty of hurting me... Guess, I made it too easy for them to do things the way they want it... You see, I am not too sure again... But then I do feel that... And, not that I have never been hurt before... But, this certainly was not the right time for them to do so... Its strange, the way people find a peculiar way of walking into your life and then walking out of it at their own comfort... Someone rightly told me this, "Naveen, the world around is filled with people who don't take relationships as seriously as you do, so stop being emotional and grow up. Start accepting things and let it go..."!! I wish it could have been as easy as it sounds here... I hate to accept it, but yeah my emotions drive me and so if I stop being emotional, I am stopping myself from me being me...
Read it somewhere "Everyone around you, will hurt you at least once in your life, and its up to you to decide what's more important, the PERSON or the PAIN"... And no points for guessing, I keep choosing the Person over the Pain and I keep myself on this way and guess what, I stop expressing myself to the people around and I am here writing and pouring out a part of my feelings down in a blog!!!
Time to mention the disclaimer once again...
DISCLAIMER: The blog written below is fictional. Any resemblance to anyone alive or dead is purely coincidental!!!
Disclaimers make life so easy...!! :):)
good one bro..
ReplyDeleteWell I knew that you can't keep yourself away from blogging... Good to see you writing.
ReplyDelete"Everyone around you, will hurt you at least once in your life, and its up to you to decide what's more important, the PERSON or the PAIN" - Rightly said PERSON is important but PAIN shows another aspect of the PERSON!!
good one dude..I read this somewhere "Everyone is going to hurt you sooner or later. You just have to decide whose worth the pain??"
ReplyDelete@Sumit... Thanks bhai
ReplyDelete@Kundan... I hope i keep writing now that i have started it!!! :)
@Adithya... Thanks man. :) I guess we both read similar things. Yours one is more meaningful :):)
congrats for a new blog !!
ReplyDeletewell written!!!
ReplyDeletejus an advice..never add disclaimer to ur blog..coz thru ur blog, u usually voice ur own opinion.so it def has to have some relation with sumthing in your life..anyways i hope all ur problems wash out sooner..n u becum as happy n chirpy as you were before
I m Surprised! ..but then I always thought u shld write. U r quite good at it.
ReplyDeleteSee, nobody bought ur disclaimer. Newys, fictional or non-fictional, dont give in too cynicism...there too many cynics in the world already!
Have faith n trust ur choices.
N wrong side of 20 or not, where's the fun if life's "only" happy n drab.
ReplyDeleteGreat one for a start, wish you continue the habit. I have believed, once you start blogging, each incident that happens around makes you think.
ReplyDeleteI don't know what bothered you that much, but whatever it is, I know you are smart enough to deal with things in the most ideal manner.
Happy Blogging, Am happy you started to! Since I sit next to you, It's easy for me to keep passing my thoughts :)I'll do!
And to add a point to "Your Emotions driving you", I'm 100% certain that many of us belong to that breed :)
ReplyDeleteIt's actually not that bad being driven by Emotions, I for certain believe, "Emotions run a man's life"!
I'm not being Gender-biased, by MAN I mean, mankind :)
dude... first lemme congratulate u on ur first blog. expertly written.. no rookie mistakes..
ReplyDeletesecondly, about the context, am sure nobody here takes me tht seriously which would make me eligible to advice on emotional and sensitive topics. but still, hear me out - i have learnt this over a period of time and few experiences, there's no point changing urself just bcos somebody hurts u. if the person is good and if u like him/her its totally worth the pain afterwards and if he/she is nt worth it, dnt worry u wont feel any pain. always remember the reason why was tht person close to u(as in the good times) and dude, time flies even the sad times. so u shud express more no matter wht medium, it makes u forget things fast. and do remember "khushi ya gum apna saathi rum ;)"
and dude u r one of the most emotionally balanced human i have evr met. so dude, chillax u will come out of it.
Naveen.. I am seeing sumthin new.. I dint know u blog so well... Loved it..
ReplyDeleteAnd u knw one secret even i love writing, i have a blog too, but I m so shy to make others read..coz i write simple thins in simple english :)